Relationships and Dating -- Not With My Daughter!


Not With My Daughter!

By The Dating Guy, AOL Friends & Flirts Editor
Posted: 2006-10-23 13:56:32
They say that when you finally find "the one," you'll know it. You'll feel in your heart that your search is over. This is the person whom you'll share the rest of your life.

 

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      And then your parents get involved. Try as you might, you cannot get them to see the same things in your mate that you do. In fact, they are dead-set against you two getting married.

      What do you do? Follow your heart or the advice of the people who've been your strongest supporters your entire life?

      How far would your parents go to stop your wedding? Would they kidnap you to prevent you from exchanging your vows?

      What's your opinion on what to do when you want to say "I do," but your parents say, "No, you don't."

      -- The Dating Guy

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      Parents Charged With Kidnapping Bride-to-Be

      By DEBBIE HUMMEL, AP

      SALT LAKE CITY (Oct. 4)- A pre-wedding shopping trip for a 21-year-old bride ended with felony charges against her parents, who she says kidnapped her and drove her 240 miles to Colorado, trying to talk her out of the nuptials along the way and holding her until she missed the ceremony.

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      "I've never had a case quite like this,"Utah County Attorney Kay Bryson saidTuesday after charging Lemuel and JuliaRedd with second-degree felony kidnapping.

      Bryson said he met with the couple'sdaughter, Julianna, and her now-husband,Perry Myers, before charging the parents."It is strange that parents would go tothat extent to keep an adult daughterfrom marrying the man that she had chosento marry," he said.

      The Redds told their daughter they were takingher on a shopping trip Aug. 4 and thendrove from Provo to Grand Junction, Colo.,according to Provo police Capt. Rick Healey.Myers, 23, called police when hisbride didn't attend a pre-wedding dinnerwith his parents that night.

      The Redds spent the night in Colorado and drove back to Provo, about 40 miles south ofSalt Lake City the next day, Healey said.

      They arrived after the young couple was supposed to havebeen married in a ceremony that day at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints Temple in Salt Lake City.

      "I was totally confused and manipulated," Julianna Myers told KTVX-TV in Salt Lake City.She said she supports the charges and hopes her parents get help. "They had their concerns, their reasoning," she said. "Honestly I don't understand. It hadnothing to do with Perry."

      Bryson said after reviewing the police investigation it was clear a crime was committed.

      The couple, both students at Brigham Young University, were married in the temple on Aug. 8,Myers said. They are expecting their first child in May.

      "We were just glad the way it ended and she just came back and she was OK," Myers said."We've gone forward since then.

      Lemuel Redd, 59, and Julia Redd, 56, were charged Friday and are scheduled to make an initialcourt appearance Oct. 26. If convicted, they could face one to 15 years in prison.

      A call to a listing for Lemuel H. Redd at the address in Monticello, Utah, listed in courtdocuments went unanswered Tuesday. No attorney for the Redds is listed in court documents.

      10/04/06 08:14 EDT Copyright 2006 The Associated Press. The information contained in the AP news report may not be published,broadcast, rewritten or otherwise distributed without the prior written authority of The Associated Press. All active hyperlinks have been inserted by AOL.

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